Monday, January 23, 2012

Post-Date Night

So after date night and proposing a place, comes the "what kind of base are we on" situation.

If you followed the previous post than chances are you are getting lucky tonight ;) Since you started your night by taking control, she's most probably expecting you to continue doing so.
One or more of the below guarantee you are getting a reward:
  • she is being flirty
  • she grabs your hand, touches your shoulder, plays with her hair, her hands...
  • she giggles
  • she is sensual
  • she's in an overall positive mood

What NOT to do:
  • Do not ignore the signs
  • Do not be "tired"
  • Do not let your male "habits" take control
  • Do not say sleazy comments
  • Do not rush things
What to do:
  • Flirt back
  • Be smooth
  • Tease her
  • Be seductive
  • Compliment her
  • Keep her happy

She needs to remember how great this night was, so make sure to blow her mind.

Friday, January 6, 2012

"I don't care..."

He says: "What do you feel like doing tonight?". "I don't care, whatever you want" she answers. Don't fall into this trap. It means you BETTER pick something she WANTS or LIKES.

What NOT to do:
  • Do not take her somewhere YOU like
  • Do not actually pick something YOU want
  • Do not pick the usual places
  • Do not stay at home
  • Do not get annoyed
What to do:
  • Start your sentence by "How about we do ...?"
  • Surprise her
  • Pick a new place she has hinted about before, that would show how attentive you are
  • Always remember what she likes
  • Always avoid what she hates
It is as complicated as you think it is.