Showing posts with label surprise. Show all posts
Showing posts with label surprise. Show all posts

Monday, September 24, 2012

"I don't want anything for my birthday"

Now you know this is never true. No woman doesn't want anything for her birthday.
She doesn't want to feel old either. So the more you do the better.

First thing you should do is to be the first one to wish her happy birthday.

Now let's discuss the plan for the evening:

Do plan something romantic: just the two of u obviously. If ur planning a surprise party and wish to invite her friends call her best friend. Her real best friend would know what ur girl really feels like and who to invite. But before you do so, make sure you have some time alone were you can be at ur best and show her your romantic side. Bottom line, you have to take her out.


When taking her out, make sure it's a new place. Now we don't necessarily mean an obnoxiously fancy place, but take her somewhere good (refer to "I don't care..." post for more details).

Make her feel pampered all the time, especially when it's time for the gift.

This doesn't mean that u should go all out when buying her a gift, but what u should do is put some thought into it. And some cash, you don't want to be cheap on her birthday.

Make sure you remember all the hints she gave you along the way, they may come in handy when picking her gift. Remember it should be something SHE likes.

DO NOT forget the card. Write your own message, and don't copy last year's.

May it be a happy birthday to both of u...

Friday, January 6, 2012

"I don't care..."

He says: "What do you feel like doing tonight?". "I don't care, whatever you want" she answers. Don't fall into this trap. It means you BETTER pick something she WANTS or LIKES.

What NOT to do:
  • Do not take her somewhere YOU like
  • Do not actually pick something YOU want
  • Do not pick the usual places
  • Do not stay at home
  • Do not get annoyed
What to do:
  • Start your sentence by "How about we do ...?"
  • Surprise her
  • Pick a new place she has hinted about before, that would show how attentive you are
  • Always remember what she likes
  • Always avoid what she hates
It is as complicated as you think it is.